Subject: Re: Sexism? From: prender@ohstpy.mps.ohio-state.edu (S Prendergast) Date: 1991-01-22, 12:33 Newsgroups: alt.tv.twin-peaks In article <1991Jan22.171237.7815@watserv1.waterloo.edu>, alternat@watserv1.waterloo.edu (Ann Hodgins) writes: [...] >> >>Dennis/Denise? > > > > Especially Dennis because he needs to dress up in order to feel able > > to be a bit different. I admire his guts in that it is clearly very > > hard for him to break his sex role training, but that the fact that he > > can't 'relax' in pants and a shirt shows that he is not role-free. > > Maybe the fact that YOU can't accept the fact that he CHOOSES not to 'relax' in [male-clothes] shows that YOU are not role-free... Maybe the fact is that he can step OUTSIDE the roles and CHOOSE which role he DESIRES to 'wear' in full knowledge that such IS a 'role' and consequently is not to be taken TOO seriously (cf his net-discussed 'campiness', etc...)... After all, one need not BELIEVE that _HAMLET_ is REALITY (with a capital R) to play the lead, or even to buy a ticket for the show. Ascribing to a role is not necessarily LOCKING one's self INTO that role, nor is it a tacit acknowledgement that one thinks that role is the be-all and end-all of life... [I'm NOT flaming you (really! :-) but hopefully giving us all some food for thought...] SWP